Stress | Habits | Change


Meaningful change is rarely about
simply trying harder.
The way we respond to stress, food, pressure, rest and everyday life is often shaped by habits and patterns that have developed over time.
essenceflo helps you understand those patterns and create new ways of responding that feel calmer, healthier and more sustainable.
This is not about perfection. It is about creating change that fits into real life.
What can we work on?
We look beyond the immediate problem and explore what may be driving it underneath the surface.
Stress, overwhelm and emotional regulation
Changing habits and automatic behavioural patterns
Creating healthier everyday routines
Working with subconscious beliefs and responses
Emotional eating and weight-management habits
Confidence, boundaries and self-belief
Learning to slow down, switch off and create space for recovery
What could you gain?
A greater sense of calm and balance
More control over automatic habits and reactions
Healthier responses to stress
Greater confidence in your own choices
A more supportive relationship with yourself
Routines that support your energy, wellbeing and ability to rest
A stronger sense of personal agency
Transformation is a process, but small changes repeated consistently can become a very different way of living.
Why essenceflo?
You may want to change your relationship with food. You may feel constantly stressed or mentally “on”. You may want to create healthier routines, change an unwanted habit, improve your boundaries or simply feel that your life is working with you rather than against you.
We often know what we should do. The difficult part is doing it consistently when we are tired, stressed, overwhelmed or caught in familiar patterns.
essenceflo focuses on that space between knowing and doing.
Together, we explore the thoughts, emotions, habits and responses that may be keeping a pattern in place, while creating practical changes you can use in everyday life.
I work with people who feel stuck in patterns they understand but struggle to change.
I combine behavioural change, coaching, hypnotherapy, NLP and breathwork.
We explore both practical habits and what may be happening beneath them.
The focus is on realistic, sustainable change rather than pressure or perfection.
Imagine…
Responding to stress without automatically falling into old habits
Reaching the end of the day and being able to mentally let go
Feeling more comfortable and confident in your own choices
Eating because your body needs nourishment rather than because emotions have taken over
Setting boundaries without carrying guilt afterwards
Creating routines that support rather than drain you
Feeling calmer, clearer and more in control of your life
This is the direction essenceflo helps you move towards — one change, one response and one habit at a time.
The essenceflo method
The essenceflo method brings together behavioural change, coaching, subconscious work, stress regulation and practical tools.
Rather than focusing only on the behaviour you want to change, we explore what keeps that behaviour happening.
1. Stress regulation
Stress can influence the way we think, eat, react, make decisions and recover at the end of the day.
You will learn practical ways to recognise your own stress patterns and create more helpful responses.
Recognising signs of overload
Using breath and body awareness to slow things down
Creating healthier responses to pressure
Developing routines that help signal when it is time to stop and recover
2. Understanding habits and triggers
A habit often has a trigger, a response and a reason it keeps repeating.
Instead of judging the behaviour, we become curious about what is happening around it.
Identifying triggers and patterns
Understanding automatic responses
Creating alternative behaviours
Building routines that are easier to repeat
This may include habits around food, stress, work, procrastination, self-care or the way you wind down at the end of the day.
3. Working with subconscious patterns through hypnotherapy
Some reactions can feel automatic because they have been repeated for a long time.
Hypnotherapy can be used as part of the process to explore established beliefs, associations and patterns and support a different way of responding.
Exploring unhelpful beliefs and associations
Creating more supportive internal responses
Strengthening the changes you want to make
Developing a greater sense of choice
4. Transformational conversation and NLP
The language we use internally can influence how we interpret situations and how we respond to them.
Together, we explore your story, thought patterns and internal dialogue and look for ways to create more choice.
Changing unhelpful internal narratives
Developing more flexible ways of thinking
Strengthening confidence and self-belief
Creating healthier boundaries
Focusing attention on the direction you want to move towards
Weight and emotional eating
For some clients, stress and habitual responses show up most clearly through food.
We can explore:
Emotional eating
Eating in response to stress or boredom
Automatic snacking
All-or-nothing thinking around food
Repeated dieting cycles
Body confidence
Creating healthier eating habits that feel sustainable
The aim is not simply to follow another diet, but to understand and change the patterns that make maintaining healthier choices difficult.


I specialise in helping people understand and change the patterns that influence how they think, feel and behave.
My work focuses particularly on stress, habits, emotional responses and sustainable behavioural change.
Rather than looking at one isolated symptom, I consider how thoughts, emotions, behaviours and physical responses interact.
I hold internationally recognised qualifications and practical experience in:
Hypnotherapy
Neuro-Linguistic Programming
Conscious Breathwork
Transformational Coaching
I bring these approaches together to provide personalised support designed around the individual rather than a fixed formula.


Stress
Habits
Change
Important information
essenceflo services are intended to support personal development, behaviour change and general wellbeing. Coaching, hypnotherapy, NLP and breathwork are not medical or psychiatric treatment and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis or treatment from a qualified healthcare professional.
I do not diagnose or treat mental health conditions. If you have a diagnosed condition, are receiving treatment or have concerns about your mental health, please speak with your GP or another appropriately qualified healthcare professional before beginning sessions.
essenceflo is not a crisis or emergency service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999 or go to A&E. For urgent mental health support in England, call NHS 111 and select the mental health option
